Did you know the ancient Greeks identified not one, but seven types of love? It’s truly mind-blowing when you think about it.
Yet, in today’s world, including myself, we often fixate solely on romantic love.
But what about the others? Let’s delve into each one:
1. **Eros**: This is the passionate, romantic love we’re all familiar with. It’s the spark that ignites between two individuals, driven by attraction and sexual longing. Over time, Eros may evolve into deeper forms of love like Philia, Storge, or Agápe.
2. **Philia**: Often referred to as friendship love, Philia is characterized by intimacy, authenticity, and soul-to-soul bonds. It’s the encouragement, kindness, and authentic connection we share with friends and companions.
3. **Erotoropia or Ludus**: Playful and flirtatious, this love is characterized by child-like playfulness often seen in the early stages of romantic relationships. It’s about engaging in playful banter, teasing, and flirting.
4. **Storge**: This is the unconditional, familial love found within families or close-knit communities. It’s a gentle, affectionate love driven by familiarity and need, often described as one-way love or a sense of patriotism.
5. **Philautia**: Compassionate self-love or self-compassion, Philautia encompasses both caring for oneself and seeking pleasure and fame. It’s about nurturing oneself, cultivating self-awareness, and honoring one’s needs without judgment.
6. **Pragma**: Built on commitment, understanding, and long-term interests, Pragma is companionate love rooted in compatibility and companionship. It’s about accepting differences, cherishing each other, and building a lasting partnership.
7. **Agápe**: Empathetic and universal love, Agápe extends beyond individuals to encompass a love for humanity, nature, and the less fortunate. It’s characterized by unconditional positive regard, acceptance, and selfless acts of kindness.
Reflecting on these seven types of love, it’s evident that love is all around us. We often mistakenly associate love solely with romantic relationships, leading us to feel lonely or unloved when we lack a partner. However, the reality is much richer and more profound.
We are surrounded by love in various forms—deep friendships that lift us up, familial bonds that provide unwavering support, and the compassion we extend to ourselves. Yet, we may fail to recognize this abundance until it’s too late.
Let’s not wait until we’re in need to acknowledge the love that surrounds us.
Let’s cherish the richness and diversity of love in all its forms. Whether it’s the laughter shared with friends, the comfort of family, or the kindness we show ourselves, let’s embrace the love that fills our lives.
After all, in a world overflowing with love, there’s always more to give and receive. 💛
Sentiments of a Writer 